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May 30, 2018

Kid Friend Breakups

Our kids have been left behind by once-best friends. They’ve also struggled with creating space between themselves and playmates they have simply outgrown. Whatever side they’re on, here’s how to make it a little less painful for all concerned.

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May 23, 2018

When Mom Leaves Town

Sometimes it feels like as much work to leave town without our kids as to not go in the first place. But guilt trips are no fun. Here’s why traveling without our kids is worth it- for everyone- plus some …

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May 16, 2018

Small Changes, Big Difference- Part Two

So many good ideas, we made a Part Two! Here’s dozens of small changes parents have made that turned out to make a big difference in their lives— thanks to our listeners plus some of the top content creators for …

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May 8, 2018

Summer Plans

It takes a lot of juggling to schedule 10 weeks of summer freedom- not to mention cash. America spends about $18 billion dollars on “summer enrichment” every year. Here’s how to keep your kids the right amount of occupied without …

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May 2, 2018

Tweens

We always figured “tween” was marketing speak for stuff with glitter on it. But 9-12 year olds actually have different brains than younger kids. And then sometimes they like stuffed animals still. Here’s how parents can deal with the whiplash.

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April 25, 2018

Small Changes, Big Difference

We asked our listeners to tell us the small changes you've made in your lives (as parents and as people) that have turned out to make a big difference. This episode is full of game-changing ideas for your home, your …

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April 18, 2018

Let’s Not Care About What We Weigh

We won’t lie to you- we probably spend more time than we should thinking about what we weigh. Which is, admittedly, variable. But while we think about what we weigh plenty when we’re unhappy with what the scale says,

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April 11, 2018

Bickering

Why do our kids bicker so incessantly? Are they actually intending to drive us batty, or is there more at work? If parents are supposed to “ignore it” until just before the face-scratching starts, how can we sense the perfect …

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March 28, 2018

Did We Really Do That?

We’ve all done things as parents that, looking back, we can’t believe. Breastfeeding twins. Writing thank you notes in the baby’s voice. Here’s some of our (and our listeners’) supermom accomplishments— and more than a few super-foolish notions.

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March 21, 2018

Managing Our Schedules

It's the battle of the calendars! Margaret loves her paper planner but tends to forget stuff. Amy swears by digital, until her phone switches all the events to Greenwich Mean Time. We talk best strategies for managing our families’ busy …

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March 14, 2018

Getting Your Kids To Talk To You

Getting our kids to talk to us is never easy (unless we’re 15 minutes late for an appointment, car keys in hand). Since “How was school today?” is apparently the worst thing Mom can ask, here’s what actually works to …

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March 7, 2018

The Best Mom Advice We Ever Got

From touching perspective-givers to why-didn’t-I-think-of-that timesavers, our listeners told us the best mom advice they ever received for parenting babies, toddlers, kids and teens. Example: wash *all* the clothes in the baby detergent. Genius!

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Feb. 28, 2018

Musical Instruments- If You Must

Must our children either be tied to a piano bench or forgo their dreams of the Ivy League? Must we battle with our children daily to make them practice and then have to listen to 15 minutes of what sounds …

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Feb. 21, 2018

Reluctant Readers

Are audio books cheating? Must every kids’ book feature Poopy Man and The Toilet King? Are reluctant readers doomed to fall behind their peers? We’ve got ideas to get everyone in your family reading, plus books your kids will drop …

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Feb. 14, 2018

Morning Madness

We’d all love a school morning where everyone gets out the door without Mom yelling or feeling stressed. And by “all” we mean all mothers. Our children seem blithely indifferent to all the hollering and pleading and bargaining we do …

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Feb. 7, 2018

What To Do When They’re Just Like You

Are your child’s most annoying personality traits super-familiar, because they are also yours? And is there anything to be done? We discuss whether those qualities are baked in the cake- or whether our kids learn how to be impossible by …

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Jan. 31, 2018

Mean Girls (with guest author Katie Hurley)

Why are today’s girls exhibiting “relational aggression” in pre-K? How can you help a daughter who’s being bullied? And what do you do when your daughter’s the one doing the bullying? Guest: Katie Hurley, author of the new book No …

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Jan. 24, 2018

Go-To Dinners

What’s a “go-to dinner”? One pot is good. 30 minutes or less is better. But we’ll use every cookie sheet and pot in the house if it’s 1) not pizza and 2) all of our kids will actually eat it. …

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Jan. 16, 2018

Sick Day Hacks

One sick day? Fine, here’s the remote. But by day 4 of a low-grade fever most of us are desperate for ideas. Here’s what to have ready for such moments, what keeps sick kids happily busy, and how to tell …

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Jan. 10, 2018

What is Up With Toddlers?

Have you a short fat dictator in your home? Do you cower before a 24-pound child demanding pizza– no, not THAT kind of pizza! the other kind, the kind she likes NOW, which apparently has neither sauce nor cheese? What …

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Jan. 3, 2018

We’re Feeling Goal-y (Our Resolutions for the New Year)

In this episode we are here to *win 2018*, whether through Amy's Word For the Year ("Clarify") or Margaret's Phrase For These Times ("Say Yes to Less"). We vow not to confuse being busy with being worthy. We also vow …

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Dec. 20, 2017

What is Up With Teenagers?

One day you have a munchkin who yes, gets up at 6 a.m. and survives on only the outside of chicken nuggets, but who also calls you “Mommy” and makes you valentines. The next day you have a grunting giant …

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Dec. 13, 2017

BONUS! What Fresh Hell Live

This bonus episode is a recording of our first-ever live show on December 1st. 400 moms (and a few brave men) came out to laugh with us, and we had a ball. We’re booking dates for 2018! If you'd like …

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Dec. 6, 2017

Bedtime Routines

A study in Sleep magazine recently found that children’s bedtime routines, regardless of what they even were, improved not only their sleep but "maternal mood" as well. That's right Mom: do it for you. Here’s how to get to lights-out …

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