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Oct. 31, 2022

Ask Margaret: My Kid Loves to Push the Limits

Is your kid great at finding loopholes in the rules you set? Like, "Law and Order" good? A listener wrote in to ask about her child's wise guy streak.

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Oct. 28, 2022

Fresh Take: Laura Vanderkam on "Tranquility By Tuesday"

Feel like you work all day and still get nothing done? Time management expert Laura Vanderkam, author of "Tranquility By Tuesday," shares nine simple rules for creating the time we want for the truly important things in our busy lives.

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Oct. 26, 2022

What Kind of Mom-ster?

When were you the mom-ster in your household? Leaving out cups? Forbidding video games on a school night? Here are our most harrowing tales of mom misbehavior, as reported by the people we live with.

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Oct. 24, 2022

Ask Amy: My Kid Has a Not-So-Secret Admirer

Does your child receive unwanted attention from another child that they just can't shake? Here's how to help your child establish healthy boundaries with other kids.

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Oct. 21, 2022

Fresh Take: Carla Naumburg Says You Are Not a Sh*tty Parent

Think you're the only garbage parent on the face of the Earth? So does every other parent on the face of the Earth. Dr. Carla Naumburg, author of You Are Not a Sh*tty Parent, shares ways to practice self-compassion, even …

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Oct. 19, 2022

Teachers are Awesome and This Is Why

We love our kids' teachers! We asked our listeners about the teachers in their kids' lives who have gone above and beyond the call of duty, and the answers came flooding in.

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Oct. 17, 2022

Ask Margaret: Planning a Family RV Trip

Have you ever thought about doing an RV trip with your family? If not you might be saner than Margaret - who did one with her three kids, but if so - here are all of Margaret's know-before-you-go tips.

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Oct. 14, 2022

Fresh Take: Dr. Stuart Shanker on Self-Reg

How can we teach our kids self-regulation? And how is it different from self-control? Dr. Stuart Shanker, author of “Reframed: Self-Reg for a Just Society,” takes us through his five-step process for helping kids regulate themselves.

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Oct. 12, 2022

The Most Important Things We've Learned (So Far)

What have we learned in the six years since we started the What Fresh Hell podcast? Here are the most important things we've learned from our experts, from each other, and from our listeners.

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Oct. 10, 2022

Ask Amy: How Do I Get My Tweens to Bed?

Is bedtime a nightly chore, even with your older kids? Does it drag on for far too long? Here are some ways to move things along.

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Oct. 7, 2022

Fresh Take: Helena Andrews-Dyer on Learning From Moms Not Like Us

What can we learn from mothers across racial and cultural divides, and how can we make authentic connections with them? Award-winning journalist Helena Andrews-Dyer asks these questions and more in her new book “The Mamas."

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Oct. 5, 2022

Is It Sometimes Easier When Our Spouses Aren't Around?

Is it easier to run the house when our spouses are out of town? A good number of our listeners said yes. Can we embrace that feeling, instead of feeling guilty?

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Oct. 3, 2022

Ask Margaret: My Kid Won't Stop Spitting

A listener struggles with her three-year-old's endless spitting. Margaret explains how to counter the instinct to react like a jack-in-the-box.

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Sept. 30, 2022

Fresh Take: Penelope Leach on "Your Baby and Child"

Penelope Leach has been guiding and reassuring parents for more than 40 years. Her classic childcare guide YOUR BABY AND CHILD is out now in a fully revised and updated edition. Penelope tells us what’s changed in child-rearing– and what …

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Sept. 28, 2022

Why Isn't This a Thing? (Part Two)

We’re back with things that don’t exist but definitely should, from dishwasher-safe waffle makers to uninterrupted showers. This ep is full of $1,000,000 ideas… and OK, some $100 ideas too. But we deserve a world in which all these things …

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Sept. 26, 2022

Ask Amy: How Do I Get My Little Guy to Open Up?

How do we get our kids to open up to us about their days at school? When our kids say “nothing” happened, are we supposed to push harder, or let them just sit there? Here’s how to get kids talking– …

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Sept. 23, 2022

Fresh Take: Donna Jackson Nakazawa on Helping Our Daughters Thrive

Stress affects the female brain very differently from the male brain, especially at puberty. Donna Jackson Nakazawa tells us about the increased rates of anxiety and depression in girls–and what we can do about it– in her new book GIRLS …

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Sept. 21, 2022

What We're Reading, Watching, and Listening to This Fall

What do lustful elves, Lizzo, and Jeopardy all have in common? They're on Amy and Margaret's reading/watching/listening list this fall. So get your Kindle, plug in your headphones, and retrieve the remote from wherever the kids (or spouse) have stashed …

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Sept. 19, 2022

Ask Margaret: My Son Doesn't Have Any Close Friends. Is That a Proble…

If your kid has lots of acquaintances but no close friends, is something amiss? Is it time to pull out the conversation cue cards on the playground? Margaret explores different reasons that kids may not have close friends.

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Sept. 16, 2022

Fresh Take: Dr. Becky Kennedy on Being "Good Inside"

Dr. Becky Kennedy, host of the "Good Inside with Dr. Becky" podcast and @drbeckyatgoodinside on Instagram, tells us how the “Good Inside” approach can reshape how we view both ourselves as parents and our children,and about her new book GOOD …

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Sept. 14, 2022

Should We Pay Our Kids to Clean Their Rooms?

Do your kids have chore charts? Do they help out anyhow, if not? Do they get paid an allowance? And does that allowance have anything to do with the doing of chores? We see these issues pretty differently. In this …

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Sept. 12, 2022

Ask Amy: My Spouse Goes Out with Friends...and I Don't

Does your parenting partner have a social life while you stay home? Has it been ages since you’ve seen your pals? Does it feel easier not to go out then to come home to a huge mess? Here’s how to …

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Sept. 9, 2022

Fresh Take: Linda Flanagan on Taking Back Kids' Sports

Is your 6th grader’s travel lacrosse schedule taking over your life? Are you spending $20K a year on youth hockey? Linda Flanagan’s new book is TAKE BACK THE GAME, and in this episode she explains how youth sports have been …

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Sept. 7, 2022

What Fresh Hell Is Back to School?

School supplies. Pre-season sports. Parent portals. Uniform pants that don’t fit the night before the first day. Back to school means the return of so many fun activities for kids, and so many fresh hells for parents. Here are a …

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