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100th Episode! The Best Stories We Haven't Told Yet
April 10, 2019

100th Episode! The Best Stories We Haven't Told Yet

Amy and Margaret celebrate 100 episodes by trying to stump each other with crazy stories that are either “True or False.” Was Amy ever interviewed by Child Protective Services? Did Margaret greet her MIL for first time by saying, “Don’t touch me”?

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Youth Sports: If You Must
April 3, 2019

Youth Sports: If You Must

Is there any middle ground between the 9-year-old with a pitching coach and the kid who quits after the second game? Maybe. Even if your family has mortgaged all its weekends for travel lacrosse, here’s how to put the “play” back in playing sports.

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What We Thought Being a Mom Would Be Like (with guest Betsy Stover)
March 27, 2019

What We Thought Being a Mom Would Be Like (with guest Betsy Stover)

Some of the things we imagined about motherhood turned out to be pretty accurate. Some of it was WAY off base. We talk what lived up to, exceeded, and confounded our expectations with the hilarious Betsy Stover of the podcast “Why Mommy Drinks.”

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When School Projects Become Parents' Projects
March 20, 2019

When School Projects Become Parents' Projects

Sooner or later every kid gets assigned a school project that is, without question, a PARENTS' project. Here’s how to discern the right amount of help such projects require, whether it’s a shoebox diorama or the science fair. Put the glue gun down!

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When You Feel Like a Failure as a Parent
March 13, 2019

When You Feel Like a Failure as a Parent

Why do all mothers feel like failures sometimes? Is it the 24/7 job description? The high stakes of nurturing small humans? A culture which tells us no matter how hard we try, there’s another mom doing it better? All of the above. Here’s what works.

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The Best Relationship Advice Ever
March 6, 2019

The Best Relationship Advice Ever

Here's the best relationship advice we’ve ever gotten: how to prioritize our partners, how to fight better, how to keep things going for the long haul. Thanks to all our contributors from our Facebook group- search “whatfreshhellcast” to join us!

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Helping Kids Manage Anxiety
Feb. 27, 2019

Helping Kids Manage Anxiety

Anxious kids often can’t explain how they’re feeling, so they’ll act out instead. We talk how to help anxious kids settle their “glitter brain” with Dr. Lisa Damour, author of Under Pressure: Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in Girls.

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Middle Kids
Feb. 20, 2019

Middle Kids

Most of us assume middle kids get the short end of the parenting stick. But some experts believe their place in the birth order makes them uniquely poised to succeed. Are there lifelong benefits for kids who grow up with a little benign neglect?

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The Best Advice Ever
Feb. 13, 2019

The Best Advice Ever

Here is (no lie) the best advice ever when it comes to making choices, doing what matters, ignoring the haters, and liking ourselves a little better. Thanks to all our contributors from our Facebook group- search “whatfreshhellcast” to find us there!

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Punishing Kids: What Works and What Doesn't
Feb. 6, 2019

Punishing Kids: What Works and What Doesn't

What makes a punishment effective? Is the primary goal payback or providing insight? Can our discipline help kids make better choices- even when they’re not worried about being caught? Here’s what does and doesn’t work for punishing kids of all ages.

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Making It Work When You Go Back To Work
Jan. 30, 2019

Making It Work When You Go Back To Work

Going back to work with little ones at home is complicated— even if you’re secretly thrilled to get back that half hour on the train. Here are our listeners’ tips for smoother returns to work, whether it’s been 6 weeks, 6 months, or a lot longer.

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Surviving a Toddler and a Newborn
Jan. 23, 2019

Surviving a Toddler and a Newborn

No lie: parenting a toddler and a newborn is as hard as parenting gets. Here’s what to have on hand, what to do when you have a hand free, how you can let people help you, and why naps are the most important thing to get organized (for you too, Mom).

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Having People Over
Jan. 16, 2019

Having People Over

Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the potluck! Here’s how to take the stress out of having people over, whether it’s beers on the couch or a dinner party for ten. If we make it fun enough, we just might do it more often.

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The Birds and The Bees: Having 'The Talk'
Jan. 9, 2019

The Birds and The Bees: Having 'The Talk'

We’ve got to talk- and sooner than any of us would probably like to think. Here’s how to talk to kids of all ages about sex, how to be an “askable” parent, how to punt when the moment isn’t right—and how to steer kids towards making better decisions.

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Our Goals for 2019
Jan. 2, 2019

Our Goals for 2019

New year, new datebook, some very familiar goals. But this is the year we make things HAPPEN. At least sometimes. In this episode we discuss what we hope to accomplish in 2019- as moms, as friends, as people who exercise once in a while.

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Live Show Bonus! Chappaqua, NY 12/1/18
Dec. 26, 2018

Live Show Bonus! Chappaqua, NY 12/1/18

This episode was recorded live at the Chappaqua Performing Arts Center on Dec 1, 2018. We book live shows into theaters around the country as well as smaller custom events for PTAs and moms’ groups. To find out more: info@whatfreshhellpodcast.com

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Holiday Traditions: The Good, The Bad, The Wish-We-Never-Started
Dec. 19, 2018

Holiday Traditions: The Good, The Bad, The Wish-We-Never-Started

What are the holiday traditions that work great for your family? What are the things you kind of dread but can't stop now? Here’s how to create a holiday season that works for everyone- including those of us who do most of Santa’s heavy lifting.

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How Not To Go Insane in the Winter
Dec. 12, 2018

How Not To Go Insane in the Winter

Everyone’s energy levels get depleted during the winter. But parents with low batteries also have to deal with cranky kids who’ve watched way too many YouTube videos and who probably should have gotten outside but it’s 4:35 pm and dark as deep space.

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Sometimes We Lose It (with guests Heather Turgeon and Julie Wright)
Dec. 5, 2018

Sometimes We Lose It (with guests Heather Turgeon and Julie Wright)

Sometimes we lose it. And while yelling kinda feels good in the moment, afterwards? Not so much. But studies show that trying to clamp down on anger actually makes us MORE angry. Here’s how to recognize our parental triggers in time to control them.

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Saying No When Other Parents are Saying Yes
Nov. 28, 2018

Saying No When Other Parents are Saying Yes

How should we handle group situations where we have different parenting styles? When our particular rules around bedtimes, screens, curfews, or sugar are up against more lax rules (or none at all)? Here’s how to talk it out with everyone beforehand.

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Are We Oversharing On Social Media?
Nov. 21, 2018

Are We Oversharing On Social Media?

We all know parents who chronicle their baby’s every bathtime, give their toddlers hashtags, and air their tween’s hurt feelings on social media. We don’t do *that*…but what are the long-term ramifications for our kids’ privacy when we press SHARE?

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Listener Questions: Fussy Babies, Toddlers, and Squabbling Siblings
Nov. 14, 2018

Listener Questions: Fussy Babies, Toddlers, and Squabbling Siblings

We answer a few of our listeners’ most pressing questions: on comforting a really fussy baby, preparing a toddler for a new arrival, and dealing with siblings who squabble constantly. Send us your questions! info@whatfreshhellpodcast.com

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Dinosaurs and Trains and Superheroes and Nerf Guns: Boy Obsessions
Oct. 31, 2018

Dinosaurs and Trains and Superheroes and Nerf Guns: Boy Obsessions

Why are some little boys so obsessed with trains or dinosaurs? Psychologists call these preschool preoccupations “extremely intense interests,” and they’re much more common among boys than girls. Here’s why boys love the things they love so dearly.

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How To Be The Teacher’s Favorite Parent
Oct. 24, 2018

How To Be The Teacher’s Favorite Parent

We have more direct relationships with our children’s teachers than our parents could ever have imagined. But the homework, online portals, and conferences aren’t always uncomplicated topics. Here’s how teachers say we can best support what they do.

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