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Jan. 17, 2022

Ask Amy: What's It Like To Have a Kid Away At College?

What’s it really like to have a kid away at college? Sure, drop-off day is hard, but there are also real benefits to this shift in the parent/child relationship. If you’re dreading an upcoming transition, Amy’s perspective will improve your …

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Jan. 14, 2022

Fresh Take: Meghan Leahy on How To Really Connect With Our Kids

Meghan Leahy is the "On Parenting" columnist for The Washington Post and a certified parenting coach. In her work, she has found that parenting problems usually come less from a lack of awareness than from a lack of connection.

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Jan. 12, 2022

Pandemic Decision Fatigue

In a recent study 47% of parents reported being so stressed about the pandemic that they struggle to make basic decisions like what’s for dinner. Sound familiar? We discuss our own pandemic decision fatigue, and where we’re finding peace right …

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Jan. 10, 2022

Ask Margaret - My Boys are Bathroom Destroyers!

If you've got boys you probably have a bathroom in your house that no one dares walk into, but this doesn't have to be a permanent state! Here are some tips and tricks for how to keep the bathrooms in …

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Jan. 7, 2022

Fresh Take: Melinda Wenner Moyer on Raising Kids Who Aren't Jerks

These days, our kids are getting the message that being selfish, obnoxious and cruel is not only okay– it’s how people in power behave. How do we teach them that it actually matters to be kind, ethical, and nice to …

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Jan. 5, 2022

Well, That Backfired! (Part Two)

Part Two! We asked our listeners: What's something you tried thinking it would go great, and instead it spectacularly backfired?

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Jan. 3, 2022

Ask Amy: My Toddler Thinks It's Funny to Hit Me

Toddlers don’t possess "theory of mind"– the ability to understand other people's mental states, and that those emotions can differ from their own. If smacking Mommy's face makes a 2-year-old feel curious, he really might not know it’s inappropriate.

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Dec. 31, 2021

BEST OF: Katherine May on "Wintering"

Katherine May is the author of WINTERING: THE POWER OF REST AND RETREAT IN DIFFICULT TIMES. In this episode, which originally aired in December 2020, May explains how we can apply the lessons of nature’s actual winters to our metaphorical …

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Dec. 29, 2021

2021: The Year in Review

We look back on the year that was and discuss the episodes that were our favorites: the ones that surprised us, taught us the most, and made us laugh. Check the show notes for the one-click playlist of all our …

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Dec. 27, 2021

Ask Margaret - How Do I Handle Kid Crushes?

When our kids tell us about their elementary school crushes– or we find out thanks to notes in their backpack– it can be exciting, confusing, or hilarious. Here’s how to talk about crushes with our younger kids and why it …

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Dec. 24, 2021

BEST OF: Carla Naumburg

Kids are hardwired to push our buttons. We’re hardwired to freak out when they do. Carla Naumburg, author of HOW TO STOP LOSING YOUR SH*T WITH YOUR KIDS, explains in this "Best Of" episode how managing our triggers can help.

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Dec. 22, 2021

BEST OF: Holiday Fails

We asked our listeners to tell us their holiday worsts, and in this "best of " episode we discuss them all, plus a few of our own. Think your holiday season has been a little crazy? Hold our eggnog.

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Dec. 20, 2021

Ask Amy: Tips for Flying With Little Ones

Flying with little ones this holiday season? We’ve got tips for what to pre-load on your phone, how to get little ones to keep masks on, and how to decide whether you want to get on the plane first– or …

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Dec. 17, 2021

Fresh Take: Rashida Dinehart on Normalizing Grief

Being a parent when you’ve lost your own parent is a special grief journey. Rashida Dinehart of The Grieving Mamas Podcast tells Margaret how her own stages of grief have progressed, and how she says moms on this journey can …

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Dec. 15, 2021

It's the Most Everything Time of the Year

According to a recent study, 41% of men strongly agreed that they can relax during the holidays. Only 27% of women felt the same. It’s the most everything time of the year, and we’re doing– and feeling– all the things.

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Dec. 13, 2021

Ask Margaret - Splitting Time at the Holidays

When we have to balance time with our partner’s family and our own at the holidays, it gets difficult to make everyone feel loved and appreciated. The key to making it work? Establishing clear expectations ahead of time, and then …

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Dec. 10, 2021

Fresh Take: Relationships with Danielle Silverstein of "Marriage and …

Danielle Silverstein, along with her husband Adam, host the podcast Marriage and Martinis . Their show presents a real, authentic marriage at its core, with all the love, hate, teamwork, struggles, laughter, humiliation, and ...

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Dec. 8, 2021

Well, That Backfired (Part One)

We asked our listeners: What's something you tried thinking it would go great, and instead it spectacularly backfired?

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Dec. 6, 2021

Ask Amy- My Kid Gags At Foods He Used To Like!

If kids already have limited food repertoires, seeing them reduce their list of acceptable foods is very stressful. What should a parent do when her child’s picky eating actually increases with age? How can parents push back without power struggles?

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Dec. 3, 2021

Fresh Take: Rachel Nielson of "3 in 30" Podcast on Why Practicing Gra…

Rachel Nielson hosts 3 in 30 Takeaways, a podcast for moms who want to love motherhood as much as they love their kids. She tells us how noticing the "flecks of gold" in her life has actually changed her parenting– …

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Dec. 1, 2021

Does Having Kids Make Us Happy?

Studies show an uncertain connection between becoming a parent and increased pleasure, so asking whether having kids makes us happy is complicated– and might not be the point. What are parenting’s rewards? What can we do to raise happiness levels?

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Nov. 29, 2021

Ask Margaret - Will I Always Be This Tired?

When you have little kids feeling tired can start to feel like a permanent state. Kids are master energy-sappers and with, say, a baby and a toddler at home it's easy to feel like being rested is a thing of …

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Nov. 26, 2021

BEST OF: Dr. Edward Hallowell on the New Science and Essential Strate…

In this “Best Of” interview Dr. Edward Hallowell, co-author of ADHD 2.0: New Science and Essential Strategies for Thriving with Distraction--From Childhood Through Adulthood, explains the growing understanding of brains with “variable attention.”

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Nov. 24, 2021

Might Seem Crazy. Works for Me.

We asked our listeners to tell us all the things that others might call crazy but which totally work for them . From packing the laundry to eating the same lunch every day for five years to toothbrushes in the …

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