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Nov. 10, 2023

Fresh Take: Mother Gopi Gita on How Kids Become Leaders

How can good leadership and good parenting intersect? Mother Gopi Gita, author of the new book LEADERSHIP PARENTING, explains how the spiritual traditions of India informed her leadership parenting model.

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Nov. 9, 2023

DEEP DIVE: When the World Moves Too Fast for Our Kids

Are our kids growing up more slowly than we did? Is that necessarily a bad thing? Can we encourage our late bloomers to pick up the pace?

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Nov. 8, 2023

Growth Mindset: What Is It? Does It Matter?

What exactly is growth mindset—and is it the crucial ingredient to our kids' future success that we've been told it is? We discuss the latest research about growth mindset and why it matters.

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Nov. 6, 2023

Ask Amy: When Did 5th Grade Get So Rough?

How can kids in fifth grade be expected to navigate the changes in their bodies, their friendships, and their emotions all at the same time? Fifth grade can be rough. Here's how parents can help.

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Nov. 3, 2023

Fresh Take: Dr. Robyn Silverman on How to Talk to Kids About Anything

Research suggests that kids really do want to talk about difficult subjects with their parents. So where do we start? Dr. Robyn Silverman, author of the bestselling book How to Talk to Kids About Anything, has ideas.

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Nov. 2, 2023

DEEP DIVE: When Your Kid Doesn't Fit the Mold

Kids who don't fit the mold can have it hard. So can their parents. While they’re lying down on second base instead of paying attention, we’re up at night worrying about the year 2035. The good news: the world is …

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Nov. 1, 2023

When Kids Fight You on Everything

All kids are defiant sometimes. Some kids are defiant all of the time—or at least it can feel that way. When kids push back constantly, it gets overwhelming. What are the best ways of understanding and responding to kids who …

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Oct. 30, 2023

Ask Margaret: Is There a Nice Way to Say "I'm All Touched Out"?

A listener who is all touched out at the end of the day is worried she is hurting her husband's feelings by rejecting his attempts to snuggle.

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Oct. 27, 2023

Fresh Take: Dr. Tracy Dalgleish on Making Relationships Work

Miscommunication is one of the most common issues that sends partners into couples therapy. Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, relationship expert and author of I DIDN'T SIGN UP FOR THIS, offers concrete solutions.

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Oct. 26, 2023

DEEP DIVE: Meeting Our Kids Where They Are

Sometimes our kids are a little behind on meeting their milestones. Sometimes they’ll never reach those milestones at all. How do we let go of “should be”? How do we meet our kids where they are, while still holding expectations …

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Oct. 25, 2023

Wait, Didn't Everyone's Family Do This?

From odd birthday traditions to showtunes in 8-part harmony, each family has their own quirks! We asked our listeners about the things they used to think everyone else's family did too.

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Oct. 23, 2023

Ask Amy: Coping with Having a Sick Child

How do we accept a life-changing diagnosis for our child? And how do we manage the fear, grief, and anxiety that accompany it? Here's how to take life-changing news one step at a time.

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Oct. 20, 2023

Fresh Take: Alyssa Blask Campbell on Raising Emotionally Intelligent …

How do we raise our kids to be emotionally intelligent, especially when many of us weren’t raised that way? Alyssa Blask Campbell, author of the new book TINY HUMANS, BIG EMOTIONS, offers a framework for helping kids build these skills …

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Oct. 18, 2023

Is There Just Too Much Parenting Information Online?

A recent study found many parents report consulting the internet for parenting advice every single day. But how much information is too much? And is it the same for everyone?

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Oct. 16, 2023

Ask Margaret: My Spouse and I Disagree About Bedtime

How do we get our children to bed at a reasonable hour, especially when our parenting partners have different ideas? Here's how to get on the same page.

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Oct. 13, 2023

Fresh Take: Vanessa Kroll Bennett and Dr. Cara Natterson on Puberty

These days puberty starts sooner and lasts longer. That requires not one "The Talk," but a hundred small conversations. Dr. Cara Natterson and Vanessa Kroll Bennett, co-authors of THIS IS SO AWKWARD, offer tips for getting started.

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Oct. 11, 2023

We're Still Cringing

What cringey moment do you lie awake at night thinking about, 5, 10, or 20 years later? That's what we asked our listeners, and let's just say we're embarrassed FOR them.

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Oct. 9, 2023

Ask Amy: When Kids Have Negative Self-Talk

What do we do when our kids' frustration causes them to direct their anger inward and call themselves stupid and worthless? Amy has suggestions for showing kids their worth consistently- not only when they're at their lowest.

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Oct. 6, 2023

Fresh Take: Catherine McCarthy, Heather Tedesco, and Jennifer Weaver …

How can we help our kids in this age of anxiety, when we can't make it go away, and we don't we have all the answers? Guests: Catherine McCarthy, Heather Tedesco, and Jennifer Weaver, authors of the new book RAISING …

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Oct. 4, 2023

Keeping Up with Friends Without Kids

A recent New York magazine article suggested that new parenthood is the single greatest threat to our adult friendships. How do we hang on to our friends without kids? When is it OK to let them go?

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Oct. 2, 2023

Ask Margaret: How Do I Handle Devices on Playdates?

Kids' restrictions on their devices vary widely from household to household. But what about when kids come to play at your house? How can you maintain firm boundaries without making your house the "unfun" one?

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Sept. 29, 2023

Fresh Take: Esau McCaulley, "How Far To The Promised Land"

What does it mean to “escape poverty” in the U.S.? In his new book HOW FAR TO THE PROMISED LAND, Esau McCaulley questions the narrative of exceptionalism that he, and other Black survivors, are conditioned to give when they “make …

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Sept. 27, 2023

Making It Work With Extended Family

How do we handle the differing expectations, caretaking styles, and cultural traditions within extended families? Amy and Margaret discuss the value of relationships with extended family (while taking a moment to brag about their own relatives!)

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Sept. 25, 2023

Ask Amy: I've Got a Bedtime Staller

What do we do when our child takes forever to get ready for bed? How do we get them back on track without too many tears? Amy gives suggestions to a listener.

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