What Fresh Hell

Fresh Take: Harold Koplowitz on the Best Way to Support Our Kids

This week we're talking to Dr. Harold Koplewicz, one of the nation's leading child and adolescent psychiatrists and the founding president of the Child Mind Institute, a national nonprofit dedicated to transforming the lives of children struggling with mental health and learning disorders.

Dr. Koplewicz is also the author of the new book THE SCAFFOLD EFFECT: Raising Resilient, Self-Reliant and Secure Kids in an Age of Anxiety, which guides parents through strategies for raising empowered, capable people.

In this episode, we discuss Dr. Koplewicz's suggestion that we create scaffolding around our children as they create their own lives. We're not the architects, we're not the builders– as parents, we're there to support the cantilevered balconies of our children's passions and interests, even if they're not at all what we imagined things would look like, or what we would build ourselves.

Miscalculations are part of the plan for our children to learn resiliency and self-reliance. Dr. Koplewicz suggests scaffolding as the best way to encourage kids to climb higher and try new things, in order that they can grow from those mistakes.

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About the What Fresh Hell Podcast

"What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood" regularly tops the Parenting and Kids and Family charts on Apple Podcasts, with over 150 episodes and two million lifetime downloads. In each episode Margaret and Amy, each moms of three, discuss a parenting topic from their usually-completely opposite perspectives.

Amy Wilson is an author, sitcom actor, and sketch comedian.
Margaret Ables is a comedian, screenwriter, and producer.