Dec. 1, 2025

DEEP DIVE: Are We Helping or Are We Helicoptering?

No one wants to be a helicopter parent. Every parent needs to be helpful. But how much, how often, and how can we find the best overall balance?

Is "helicopter parenting" actually a definable thing? Or is it just what we call parents who are being annoying? Overparenting is something that it's easy to be judgey about in other people, and a lot harder to identify in ourselves. Parents have to help. It's what we're there for. So how do we manage without micromanaging?

In this episode, we discuss:

  • The conditions that trigger parental anxiety (probably the true cause of overattentive parenting)
  • Allowing struggles and disappointments to be part of our kids' journeys
  • How to discern for yourself if you're maybe helicoptering more than helping

 

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

 

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